Relational EMDR Therapy®- Examining the Self of the Therapist

December 4 - 6, 2026

Take a Deep Dive Into Self.

We all have our own unique journeys that call us to this work.  And as part of the path towards becoming a therapist, we are beckoned to heal our own wounds so we can heal others. We ask our clients to be brave.  We, too, must be brave.  We ask our clients to tolerate the unknown.  We, too, must embrace uncertainty.  We ask our clients to trust the process.  So, we, too, have to let whatever happens, happen.  And there's more.  It's the WE of the relationship that create the conditions that make it possible for our clients to 'go there.'  But we have to accompany them every step of the way.

This is a Journey of Discovery—Both Personal and Professional.

We’ll explore together what it's like to work with some of the most challenging clients and discover how they can also be the most rewarding.

We’ll work on ourselves so we can bring our highest Self to our work every day. When we are consistently present as our best selves in the moment with our clients, we are most able to help them navigate the uncharted emotional territory between themselves and others. 

Deany explains the core of
Relational EMDR Therapy®:
Examining the Self of the Therapist

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Who Is Eligible?

Any mental health clinician, licensed for independent practice, who:

  • Has been actively using EMDR therapy with clients who have complex trauma
  • Is interested in engaging with your fellow colleagues to do a personal piece of work that relates to how you're being challenged in your role as a therapist


It is strongly recommended that you have also completed The Craft of EMDR Therapy and at least one Advanced training with Deany.

Course Description
Relational EMDR Therapy® -
Examining the Self of the Therapist 

December 4 - 6, 2026

Course Description 
The therapeutic relationship is key to the work we do. And focusing on that is central to this training. It includes opportunities—through learning, clinical video cases and dyad work—to enhance your therapeutic presence and strengthen your capacity for relating to clients. Equally important is the exploration of powerful new ways to use the therapeutic relationship to help clients achieve healing and transformation.
Learning Objectives 

  • Conceptual maps that help you navigate Triangle of Trauma dynamics
  • Understanding response patterns—our own and our clients'—that can set the triangle dynamic in motion
  • Practical strategies that help facilitate repair and resolution
  • Using EMDR to build and strengthen new adaptive patterns of response in a client
Refund Policy: 

·       Tuition is refundable up to 30 days in advance, less a $150 administrative fee.

·       Withdrawals between 14-29 days from the start date of the training are refundable less a $250 administrative fee.

·       Withdrawals less than 14 days from the start date are not refundable. A 50% credit may be applied towards a future cohort of the same training.

·       There are no refunds or credits are available once training begins. All cancellations must be made in writing via email to admin@emdrtherapy.com. The Center reserves the right to cancel or reschedule the training at its discretion and will either credit one's tuition towards a future training or offer a full refund.


Presented by: The Center for Excellence in EMDR Therapy 
Course: Live Online
Instructional Level: Advanced
Price: $690
Target Audience: 
This training is appropriate for doctoral‑level psychologists and other independently licensed mental health professionals. 
CE Credits: 18
EMDRIA Credits: 18 CE Credits 

CEC Information: Relational EMDR®: Examining the Self of the Therapist - Click Here

Course Interaction and System Requirements 
  • An internet connection – broadband wired or wireless (3G or 4G/LTE) 
  • Speakers and a microphone – built-in, USB plug-in, or wireless Bluetooth
  • Virtual camera software for use with broadcasting software like OBS or IP cameras 
  • Chrome, Firefox, Edge or Safari: Within the current and past 2 versions 
  • macOS X with macOS X (10.13) or later or Windows 10 or later 
Important Information
  • A Certificate of Completion will be made available within 10 business days after training if all attendance & participation requirements have been met.   
  • Full attendance at all scheduled sessions is required in order to receive continuing education credit   
  • If you need ADA accommodation requests, special accommodations, have questions, grievances, or would like to submit a refund request, please contact us at admin@emdrtherapy.com.   
  • There is no conflict of interest or commercial support for this program. 
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Meet Your Trainer

Deany Laliotis, LICSW, LCSW-C

I’m Deany Laliotis, the Founder & Director of The Center. I am passionate about the power of EMDR therapy to transform lives. Since 1993, I had the privilege of working very closely with Dr. Francine Shapiro, the originator of EMDR, and was mentored by her until her death in 2019. I was the Director of Training for EMDR Institute Inc., the program developed by Dr. Shapiro that trained clinicians all over the world in EMDR therapy. We trained thousands of EMDR therapists over the years in this comprehensive approach to healing trauma. My vision has always been to offer a continuum of trainings from Basic to Masterclasses, which is what The Center currently offers. We welcome you to join us as part of our community of lifelong learners!

What trainees say about Training at The Center

#incredible training | #going to change the course of my clinical practice | #I felt supported | #I was absolutely blown away | #my facilitators were INCREDIBLE

The Craft of EMDR Therapy was a transformational journey, both personally and professionally, and raised my expectations of what’s possible in my work with clients with complex trauma.
Deany and her team clearly explained and demonstrated how to take the practice of EMDR therapy to a new level, to help clients become less identified with their adaptations, and more appropriately oriented to their here-and-now experience.The portion of the training that involved personal work was probably the most powerful part of the process. The effectiveness of this work has been evidenced by the significant progress of my clients since taking this course, particularly those clients with whom I previously struggled.
Deany Laliotis is an exceptional trainer and therapist, and beautifully demonstrated how the process of EMDR therapy can go beyond symptom relief, to become a life affirming and joyful process for both client and therapist.
Michele Topel, LPC, LCPC
Therapist
Washington, DC
Any trainer can present material, but Deany Laliotis’ trainings are more of an experience. She not only is knowledgeable about the material, but she engages the audience by being personable, asking thought provoking questions, and spends the time making sure we get it. Though she is a thought leader in the EMDR community, she makes you feel like a peer, and connects in ways I have not experienced in other trainings. At my last training people flew from all parts of the country to attend, and we were all eager to take another training with her. If you are serious about advancing your skills as an EMDR therapist, train with Deany.
Bryon Bratt, LPC
Lincoln, NE
Run, do not walk, to Deany's next training! As a newly certified EMDR therapist, I have been actively looking to integrate my clinical skills into my work using EMDR. While there are many trainings out there, none have resonated with me so deeply as Deany's approach. It just makes sense to me now. Learning EMDR is often described as akin to "drinking from a fire hose." It's an accurate assessment, I think, but learning from Deany has helped tremendously in bringing more clarity and focus, and has renewed in me a sense of excitement for the work. I can't wait to learn more!
Carolyn Wingfield, PhD
Clinical Psychologist
Burbank, CA

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