Understanding The Basics of EMDR Training
At every level of training—from the EMDR Basic Training to the EMDR Master level—The Center for Excellence in EMDR Therapy (The Center) offers a comprehensive approach to transformational healing—integrating interpersonal neurobiology, somatic processes...
It’s hard to reconcile when the holiday season which is supposed to be festive, joyous and a special time for gathering with loved ones, is actually more complex, demanding, and stressful. It’s also hard to admit that it’s not only “not wonderful,” it’s also challenging when we are gathering with...
How do we want to show up for our clients as we journey with them, nervous system to nervous system, heart to heart?
What can we let go of and what can we embrace to make that possible?
That clench in the jaw, the flip in the stomach, the...
We all know how it feels when someone you love dies suddenly or in an unexpected way. There is numbness and overwhelm. And then the mind struggles to make sense of the loss. It wrestles with the frailty of life in the face of disease and accidents. It brings up memories and images of the loved one...
A client, whom we will call Doris, was 50 when she first came to see me. She brought with her a long list of ongoing issues—chronic dissatisfaction, simmering anger, ruptured relationships, sexual dysfunction, depression, anxiety and low self-esteem.
Doris first presented as confident. She had a...
Clients who are easily triggered into a state of hyper-vigilance, may tell you they’d prefer to respond from a place of calm. Completely understandable! But making “calmness” the desired outcome after processing can be equally problematic.
In this quick, compelling video, Deany Laliotis shares a...
Grief is not unhealthy…It is the normal response
to an abnormal event. Kirsti A. Dyer, MD, MS.
Grief is a universal human experience. Each griever’s experience, however, is unique. There is no prescription for how or how long a person should grieve. And without a blueprint to help guide grievers...
Resourcing can be invaluable when a client needs support for navigating an anticipated challenge—such as a life crisis or the demands of reprocessing. It can be any quality or attribute that offers a client the support they need to approach, such as confidence, calmness, equanimity to name a few.
As...
Couples are complicated. And when each partner has their own trauma history, it can be even more complex. They each have their own histories, and then there’s the history of the couple. So, of course, they trigger each other. And much of why it happens is out of their awareness, so day-to-day...
Hope Payson, LCSW, LADC is a widely respected expert in the treatment of addiction and trauma and an EMDR Consultant. She is highly sought-after trainer, consultant and presenter. The Center is offering her 12 CE training—Treating Addictions with EMDR Therapy: A Path to Reconnection. Check it out...
Let’s face it, one of the common adaptions to trauma that therapists share is the overdeveloped role of rescuer. It is easy for some of us to step into the trauma triangle through this dynamic. It is so automatic we may not even notice when we do.
As trauma therapists, we understand that when we’re “triggered” by present situations that are similar to what we’ve been through before, the most important thing is to know that we’re triggered. We all know what it’s like to be “in it” rather than observing our reactions. To use a common metaphor...